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- Loss of a Loved One
- by mizztali
- Posts 39
Thu Mar 24, 2011 11:54 pm
On March 13, 2011 was the 1 year anniversary of my fathers passing. the whole day is just a blurr to me. i have never had experienced a personal death and i took it very hard and still to this day i have yet to cope with it. i was there when he took his last breath and that was the most horrible thing i could have experienced. i carry guilt for having allowed my children to witness that but they insisted to be there. was i wrong to do that? there are so many places that i pass every day that remind me of him. i feel i need to move on but how do i do that when i am surrounded by reminders of him? need some encouraging words that will make me believe that it actually does get better with time as people keep telling me. sorry for ranting, just missing my dad dearly. thanx for listening.
- by mizztali
- Posts 39
Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:23 am
i guess i should look on the positive side, my dad is up there with my little angel and she is no longer alone. Miss you both. till we meet again. sweetie give your grandpa a kiss and a hug for me.
Hugs & Kisses
xoxoxoxo
Hugs & Kisses
xoxoxoxo
- by BZCA_Ashley
- Posts 1387
Sun Mar 27, 2011 12:21 pm
mizztali,
The loss you are feeling is understandable and with time you will feel better. Do not feel as though you "need to move on." Take each day as it comes and when you pass the places that remind you of your father, take a moment to remember the wonderful times you have had.
You father may not physically be here with you, but he is forever in your heart and in the heart of your children.
(((HUGS)))
Ashley
The loss you are feeling is understandable and with time you will feel better. Do not feel as though you "need to move on." Take each day as it comes and when you pass the places that remind you of your father, take a moment to remember the wonderful times you have had.
You father may not physically be here with you, but he is forever in your heart and in the heart of your children.
(((HUGS)))
Ashley
- by FreakyKate_BZCL
- Posts 1288
Sun Mar 27, 2011 11:37 pm
Oh hun! I am so sorry for the lose of your father! As hard as it may seem now, it does get easier to deal with the pain. And do not feel guilty that your children were there. If it was their wishes, it may have been what they needed. That closure in a sense. I agree with Alissa, when you pass by the places that remind you of him, soak up those memories then. Your allowed to grieve. ((BIGGEST HUGS TO YOU!!)) Please feel free to stop and write whenever you need some listening ears!! Take care hun!!