-
by BZCA_Alisa - Posts 13353
I've heard people say before that Muslims shouldn't be allowed to serve in the military. I blasted them as prejudiced and disgusting.
But this incident has me thinking.
Can you separate your history from your present? He was being deployed to tend to the mental well being of soldier who were going in to kill his people. Yes he is Jordanian but Jordan borders Iraq and they are both Arab populations. Was it too much to ask him to do? He'd likely hear a lot of nasty nasty things said about Arabs by these soldiers.
Could you do it? I am Jewish. I've said before that if something happened and the US went to war with Israel that I would support the US because I am American before I am Jewish. But could I really separate it? Wouln't my heart just rip in two when I heard about the civilian deaths that are always caused by military invasion? could I really and truly separate it?
You're Christian (general you). Could you fight a war that would most definity cause mass Christian casualties?
Perhaps instead of denying American Muslims of Arab descent the right to serve their country we should think about how we let them serve their country. Does that make sense? If the US went to war with Israel and I was a member of the US military I would welcome the opportunity to be stationed elsewhere and do my duties outside the war zone.
is there a conflict of interest?
I hope this came across right and doesn't make me sound anti-Muslim because I think those who know me will agree that I am most definitely not. I am doing what I tend to do which is think of the perpetrator.....(bad me!)
Community Assistant Alisa.X.Burdman.-ND@disney.com
Fri Nov 06, 2009 9:31 am
-
by Marian1 - Posts 1340
Marian

Fri Nov 06, 2009 9:48 am
-
by my.3.sons - Posts 8258
Fri Nov 06, 2009 9:49 am
-
by Mizz Richards - Posts 1429
They say this guy screamed out, "In the name of Allah!" before he started killing people. Very reminiscent of 9/11... very scary.
This can't be good for those out there who already have prejudicial ideas about these particular people.
I can tell from your post that you are not discriminating against anyone at all. Your questions are valid indeed. And being that the army was supposedly "watching" this dude and he allegedly had some suspicious things going on in his computer... I definitely feel he should've been dealt with as an individual case w/cause for concern...
Fri Nov 06, 2009 9:59 am
-
by me&zooey - Posts 4424
He's not Jordanian, he is of Jordanian descent. He was born in America, he's a major in the American military, he's American. Was it too much to ask him to do? No. HE decided to enlist. America's military being in the Middle East is not anything new, if he had issues separating his feelings for the country of familial descent, or ties to any other country than America, he should not have joined the military.
<span style="font-family: Arial; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;">Could you do it? I am Jewish. I've said before that if something happened and the US went to war with Israel that I would support the US because I am American before I am Jewish. But could I really separate it? Wouln't my heart just rip in two when I heard about the civilian deaths that are always caused by military invasion? could I really and truly separate it?</span>
I don't consider myself anything other than Canadian, so I don't know how to answer this. I have more issues with the 'why's' of military action/invasion than I do with who is the collateral damage. A dead civilian is a dead civilian, no matter if we share the same ethnicity, faith, or anything else, or if we have nothing in common at all.
<span style="font-family: Arial; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;">Perhaps instead of denying American Muslims of Arab descent the right to serve their country we should think about how we let them serve their country. Does that make sense? If the US went to war with Israel and I was a member of the US military I would welcome the opportunity to be stationed elsewhere and do my duties outside the war zone.</span>
I disagree. I don't think special groups in the military should be able to pick and choose their stations because of their descent or faith. That would suggest preferential treatment and would likely cause more acrimony among the troops altogether.
http://floruit.typepad.com/
Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:07 am
-
by I.Am.Who.I.am - Posts 121
Mizz Richards wrote:As soon as I heard his name... I thought, "Oh boy... Muslims just can't get a break..."
They say this guy screamed out, "In the name of Allah!" before he started killing people. Very reminiscent of 9/11... very scary.
This can't be good for those out there who already have prejudicial ideas about these particular people.
I can tell from your post that you are not discriminating against anyone at all. Your questions are valid indeed. And being that the army was supposedly "watching" this dude and he allegedly had some suspicious things going on in his computer... I definitely feel he should've been dealt with as an individual case w/cause for concern...
Just wanted to point out that this is unconfirmed. Right now people are saying that someone said that he yelled "Allahu AKbar". Until it is confirmed its heresay.
Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:10 am
-
by FarrahTTC#2 - Posts 3437
AlisaBZCA wrote:So I was watching the news this morning about Major Hasan and his background. He was born in Virginia to Jordanian parents. He is and his parents are American citizens. He is a Muslim and has been his entire life.
I've heard people say before that Muslims shouldn't be allowed to serve in the military. I blasted them as prejudiced and disgusting.
But this incident has me thinking.
Can you separate your history from your present? He was being deployed to tend to the mental well being of soldier who were going in to kill his people. Yes he is Jordanian but Jordan borders Iraq and they are both Arab populations. Was it too much to ask him to do? He'd likely hear a lot of nasty nasty things said about Arabs by these soldiers.
Could you do it? I am Jewish. I've said before that if something happened and the US went to war with Israel that I would support the US because I am American before I am Jewish. But could I really separate it? Wouln't my heart just rip in two when I heard about the civilian deaths that are always caused by military invasion? could I really and truly separate it?
You're Christian (general you). Could you fight a war that would most definity cause mass Christian casualties?
Perhaps instead of denying American Muslims of Arab descent the right to serve their country we should think about how we let them serve their country. Does that make sense? If the US went to war with Israel and I was a member of the US military I would welcome the opportunity to be stationed elsewhere and do my duties outside the war zone.
is there a conflict of interest?
I hope this came across right and doesn't make me sound anti-Muslim because I think those who know me will agree that I am most definitely not. I am doing what I tend to do which is think of the perpetrator.....(bad me!)
Wouldn't that then force them to discuss their religious beliefs which otherwise they shouldn't need to do? I assume there are many people in the US who are of Arab descent who are not muslims. I totally understand what you are saying though...they should have options, but they also had to have known when they enlisted in the military that this was a VERY strong possibility...KWIM?
Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:28 am
-
by Pocololo_BZCL - Posts 11579
I personally think that the military needs to have some sort of "opt out" option. Forcing people to fight against their conscience or against their beliefs is bound to cause deep psychological issues...as we see here.
I think it is also important for people who will be in military to really think about this. Some things do not die with time. I am constantly amazed at how raw my emotions are in regards to some things that happened in Scotland hundreds of years ago. Not everyone feels so stongly, but it is something that I know and accept about myself. I think people need to examine every aspect of their conscience before enlisting. Think of all of the variables.
Tracey

Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:38 am
-
by katogni - Posts 5826
I suppose it is valid to a degree to be concerned, and perhaps there should be some mechanism for it, but really you sign up, you sign up and that's that, you go where the country sends you.
There are Americans of Arabic descent and Muslim Americans who have served with distinction and honor in all theaters including those in the Middle East, so it isn't a problem for all, though I suppose for a few. But how do you distinguish between well you are from Arabic descent so you don't have to go, but this other person is of European descent but disagrees with this war and they have to go?
I heard that the killer's family has already come out with a statement that they are American, that they love their country and that they are deeply distressed that this happened. He came from a family that identifies themselves as American, he was born here, he joined the US military.
He was obviously a disturbed individual. What I find scary is that he was allowed to continue to serve as a mental health professional for those in the military with PTSD after the red flags that had gone up about him, and even be promoted.
My heart goes out to the families at Fort Hood, they have been going through more than most can bear before this tragedy and to have your base violated in such a way and your loved one's not safe even there, what a horror.
Kat
Mohandas Gandhi
Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:39 am
-
by deborahdeborah - Posts 21127
Anyhow, I have read everything I can find online about the incident, and I think it's going to be a while before we get a picture of what happened (and after Pat Tillman, I wonder how full a picture we get of incidents in the first place). I do hope people keep a lid on the Muslim panic. The comments after a lot of the articles I've read online are frightening.
I do agree with Tracey that there should be a safety valve to get people out of the military, whether or not this particular incident turns out to illustrate a need for one. There isn't another employment contract I can think of that forces you to perform the job, rather than suffer monetary penalty.
Fri Nov 06, 2009 11:52 am
-
by KaitlynsMum - Posts 10378
I do think their is a huge conflict of interest, some could handle it, others couldn't from what I've read about this solider he was pretty high up and if we hadn't been at war with an Arab country I don't think it could have possibily been a conflict. I think it's situational.
What if the US went to war with Italy and the head of the division was a Roman Catholic...would that be a conflict of interest, I would say it definitely could be as well. In esence they are being asked to fight their ancestors and their blood. Not something I could ever separate from.

Fri Nov 06, 2009 11:53 am
-
by Sazsa - Posts 6194
This person was in college the same time as me and a fellow VT Hokie. We had already been in the Gulf Storm conflict ('90-'91ish, not declared 'war' by congress), I attened classes with guys who served in the conflict, and conflict with middle eastern nations was not an unheard of possibility. I would think this would have been a scenario he thought about before enlisting. I am very interested to hear more. Some of the news sounds like it may be war in general he didn't think he could handle as opposed to war on soil so rooted in his (possible) history. Not to defend him in ANY way, but until faced with actually going to war, I don't know how I would react, especially if I knew the horrors awaiting me from soldiers talking ot me every day. Maybe he was able to separate his history just fine.
Fri Nov 06, 2009 11:59 am
-
by Dorydorito - Posts 3670
I think you raise some excellent points. I thank you for making me think about this in a different light. That being said, I don't come from a family that is militarily oriented. My grandfather fought in WWII in the Navy but that experienced turned him into a flaming liberal and he never considered himself a military man. So I don't count him.
While I'm not Jewish, my heritage is. (I'm adopted by my father) But even so, I don't think I could fight against Israel. I wonder how many people in WWII were of German decent? (sorry just popped into my mind) I do think it can be a conflict of interest, regardless of how "American" you are. Some people identify more with their bloodlines than others, it's a spectrum if you ask me.
Jenny

[/url]</span>
Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:06 pm
-
by I.Am.Who.I.am - Posts 121
deborahdeborah wrote:Like Crys, I am too identified with my current country to really identify that much with any country my relatives came from. From my end, I don't see it as an issue or problem. Although I'm somewhat doubtful, also, that we're ever going to war with, say, Sweden.
Anyhow, I have read everything I can find online about the incident, and I think it's going to be a while before we get a picture of what happened (and after Pat Tillman, I wonder how full a picture we get of incidents in the first place). I do hope people keep a lid on the Muslim panic. The comments after a lot of the articles I've read online are frightening.
I do agree with Tracey that there should be a safety valve to get people out of the military, whether or not this particular incident turns out to illustrate a need for one. There isn't another employment contract I can think of that forces you to perform the job, rather than suffer monetary penalty.
EXTREMELY frightening.
And it must really hurt those Muslim Americans who have proudly served their country and put their life on the line to defend those people espousing such hatred.
The statement Hasan's family released tore at my heartstrings. They are good Americans, they love their country and now due to the actions of their son they will be receiving death threats and other forms of harassment.
So sad.
Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:06 pm
-
by Mizz Richards - Posts 1429
I.Am.Who.I.am wrote:As soon as I heard his name... I thought, "Oh boy... Muslims just can't get a break..."
They say this guy screamed out, "In the name of Allah!" before he started killing people. Very reminiscent of 9/11... very scary.
This can't be good for those out there who already have prejudicial ideas about these particular people.
I can tell from your post that you are not discriminating against anyone at all. Your questions are valid indeed. And being that the army was supposedly "watching" this dude and he allegedly had some suspicious things going on in his computer... I definitely feel he should've been dealt with as an individual case w/cause for concern...
Just wanted to point out that this is unconfirmed. Right now people are saying that someone said that he yelled "Allahu AKbar". Until it is confirmed its heresay.
It may be unconfirmed. And it really isn't that important if he said it or not. His actions spoke way louder than any words ever could..
With that said... I thought "Allahu akbar" meant exactly that... "In the name of Allah" or "Praise be to Allah".
I'm just saying this type of thing must be very detrimetal to Muslim Americans wo are already having such a hard time after 9/11...
Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:41 pm
-
by spacecase76_BZCL - Posts 6075
me&zooey wrote:<span style="font-family: Arial; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;">Can you separate your history from your present? He was being deployed to tend to the mental well being of soldier who were going in to kill his people. Yes he is Jordanian but Jordan borders Iraq and they are both Arab populations. Was it too much to ask him to do? He'd likely hear a lot of nasty nasty things said about Arabs by these soldiers.
He's not Jordanian, he is of Jordanian descent. He was born in America, he's a major in the American military, he's American. Was it too much to ask him to do? No. HE decided to enlist. America's military being in the Middle East is not anything new, if he had issues separating his feelings for the country of familial descent, or ties to any other country than America, he should not have joined the military.
<span style="font-family: Arial; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;">Could you do it? I am Jewish. I've said before that if something happened and the US went to war with Israel that I would support the US because I am American before I am Jewish. But could I really separate it? Wouln't my heart just rip in two when I heard about the civilian deaths that are always caused by military invasion? could I really and truly separate it?</span>
I don't consider myself anything other than Canadian, so I don't know how to answer this. I have more issues with the 'why's' of military action/invasion than I do with who is the collateral damage. A dead civilian is a dead civilian, no matter if we share the same ethnicity, faith, or anything else, or if we have nothing in common at all.
<span style="font-family: Arial; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;">Perhaps instead of denying American Muslims of Arab descent the right to serve their country we should think about how we let them serve their country. Does that make sense? If the US went to war with Israel and I was a member of the US military I would welcome the opportunity to be stationed elsewhere and do my duties outside the war zone.</span>
I disagree. I don't think special groups in the military should be able to pick and choose their stations because of their descent or faith. That would suggest preferential treatment and would likely cause more acrimony among the troops altogether.</span>
ITA
Stacy~~Mom to Jade, Kitana, and James. Wife to Josh.
Co-host: Feb08 BDC -- spacecase76.bzhost@gmail.com
Fri Nov 06, 2009 3:23 pm
-
by spacecase76_BZCL - Posts 6075
PocololoBZHost wrote:Well, everyone has a history and whether or not you(general) could handle fighting against other people (Americans, or other nationalities) is something that needs to be looked at very carefully before you(general) take that step to enter the military. You never know what will happen. We could end up with our own civil problems that would require you to fight against your neighbour. It has happened before, in many places including the United States. And the fact that the US even exists proves that people can look beyond their lineage and fight against their "people" for what they believe to be right.
I agree with this part.
PocololoBZHost wrote:
I personally think that the military needs to have some sort of "opt out" option. Forcing people to fight against their conscience or against their beliefs is bound to cause deep psychological issues...as we see here.
Not to sound snarky or anything, but there is an opt out...it's called "Don't join". US military service is voluntary....
Being in the Middle East fighting has been going on for a very long time. I remember the Gulf War starting when I was in middle school, and our military was there for long before that war started. IMO, muslims, middle easterners, etc. who joined the US military knew...at least in the back of their minds...that one day they could / would most likely be sent to the Middle East to fight. They should have thought about that risk before they joined...maybe if it had been better thought out, they wouldn't join.
Stacy~~Mom to Jade, Kitana, and James. Wife to Josh.
Co-host: Feb08 BDC -- spacecase76.bzhost@gmail.com
Fri Nov 06, 2009 3:32 pm
-
by Utah Peach - Posts 1909
I don't know the validity of the reports, but there is an injured Utah soldier who told her parents that before the shooting began he yelled "Allahu Akbar." Apparently there have been other soldiers reporting the same thing. That is more disturbing to me than the idea of sending people to fight in their ancestral countries.
ETA: I guess I'm not the first person to hear about the shouting before the shooting. And whoever said it's heresay...it's always heresay unless we were there. What more confirmation do you need than hearing it from people who were there and who were shot? The Utah soldier was sitting directly across the table from the man when he started shooting. The soldier next to her is dead - she lived. I think she would probably know what he said right before he shot the face off the person sitting next to her.
Fri Nov 06, 2009 3:51 pm
-
by Pocololo_BZCL - Posts 11579
spacecase76 wrote:Well, everyone has a history and whether or not you(general) could handle fighting against other people (Americans, or other nationalities) is something that needs to be looked at very carefully before you(general) take that step to enter the military. You never know what will happen. We could end up with our own civil problems that would require you to fight against your neighbour. It has happened before, in many places including the United States. And the fact that the US even exists proves that people can look beyond their lineage and fight against their "people" for what they believe to be right.
I agree with this part.PocololoBZHost wrote:
I personally think that the military needs to have some sort of "opt out" option. Forcing people to fight against their conscience or against their beliefs is bound to cause deep psychological issues...as we see here.
Not to sound snarky or anything, but there is an opt out...it's called "Don't join". US military service is voluntary....
Being in the Middle East fighting has been going on for a very long time. I remember the Gulf War starting when I was in middle school, and our military was there for long before that war started. IMO, muslims, middle easterners, etc. who joined the US military knew...at least in the back of their minds...that one day they could / would most likely be sent to the Middle East to fight. They should have thought about that risk before they joined...maybe if it had been better thought out, they wouldn't join.
But people change. My ideals at 31 are a hell of alot different than my ideals at 17. Add that to the fact that there is no way to know what you are getting yourself in to. War as seen on TV is much different when you are looking at the shells of the people that are returning, or when you are seeing it with your own two eyes. I cannot even imagine. I thought I was anti-war before, but seeing my husbands cousin come back from Iraq in a bag that only contained maybe 20 percent of his actual body made it so much more real to me.
And this also touches on something that I feel very strongly about...recruiting. In order to be fair and honest I think that any military owes it to their recruits to show them what they are signing on for. Not the glorified version that the recruiters show at career day in high school, but the real deal. The mangled and dead bodies. Not just other soldiers, but women and children. And if people are not old enough to drink alcohol then they are not old enough to enlist. I dont believe anyone under the age of 21 should be allowed....and then should be given the opportunity to quit. I dont understand how any military institution can think that those who are trapped would be efficient at their job. And a job that means life and death no less.
Tracey

Fri Nov 06, 2009 3:58 pm
-
by I.Am.Who.I.am - Posts 121
But people change. My ideals at 31 are a hell of alot different than my ideals at 17. Add that to the fact that there is no way to know what you are getting yourself in to. War as seen on TV is much different when you are looking at the shells of the people that are returning, or when you are seeing it with your own two eyes. I cannot even imagine. I thought I was anti-war before, but seeing my husbands cousin come back from Iraq in a bag that only contained maybe 20 percent of his actual body made it so much more real to me.
And this also touches on something that I feel very strongly about...recruiting. In order to be fair and honest I think that any military owes it to their recruits to show them what they are signing on for. Not the glorified version that the recruiters show at career day in high school, but the real deal. The mangled and dead bodies. Not just other soldiers, but women and children. And if people are not old enough to drink alcohol then they are not old enough to enlist. I dont believe anyone under the age of 21 should be allowed....and then should be given the opportunity to quit. I dont understand how any military institution can think that those who are trapped would be efficient at their job. And a job that means life and death no less.
Tracey
I agree. People change all the time. When they sign up they are in a different place then when they're 26 or 27 and being asked to deploy for the 3rd time in 8 years.
I also agree about the recruiting tactics.....they need to reform those.
In reference to the highlighted portion....can you imagine what it is like for the young men and women whose job it is to gather the leftover body parts?
My best friend's brother was KIA in Najaf in August 2004. he was green beret, army ranger, elite forces. He was shot in the head and fell in the direction of the enemy. His group risked their own lives to go back and pick him and the pieces up and bring him to safety. They knelt around him until he was gone and then took him back to be sent home.
Can you imagine what those memories will be for those men?
Can people understand that someone's ability to fight a war might change after witnesses that?
Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:25 pm
-
by spacecase76_BZCL - Posts 6075
Utah Peach wrote:I honestly haven't ever had to think about it. But as far as fighting a war where mostly Christian casualties would occur - it's happened twice that I can think of. WWI and WWII. People of German and Japanese decent fought in WWII. They did it then....and it happens now. Doesn't make it easier or right, but this is not the first conflict where people had to fight against people "like" them. The only fight I can think of which would make me feel torn is if the US ever went to war against the UK...and I can't see that happening again.
what about the Civil War?
Stacy~~Mom to Jade, Kitana, and James. Wife to Josh.
Co-host: Feb08 BDC -- spacecase76.bzhost@gmail.com
Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:27 pm
-
by me&zooey - Posts 4424
spacecase76 wrote:I honestly haven't ever had to think about it. But as far as fighting a war where mostly Christian casualties would occur - it's happened twice that I can think of. WWI and WWII. People of German and Japanese decent fought in WWII. They did it then....and it happens now. Doesn't make it easier or right, but this is not the first conflict where people had to fight against people "like" them. The only fight I can think of which would make me feel torn is if the US ever went to war against the UK...and I can't see that happening again.
what about the Civil War?
Y'all also fought us a few times, too, ya know! We trashed the White House! We burned it!
Then we helped fix it.
http://floruit.typepad.com/
Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:36 pm
-
by spacecase76_BZCL - Posts 6075
I.Am.Who.I.am wrote:
But people change. My ideals at 31 are a hell of alot different than my ideals at 17. Add that to the fact that there is no way to know what you are getting yourself in to. War as seen on TV is much different when you are looking at the shells of the people that are returning, or when you are seeing it with your own two eyes. I cannot even imagine. I thought I was anti-war before, but seeing my husbands cousin come back from Iraq in a bag that only contained maybe 20 percent of his actual body made it so much more real to me.
And this also touches on something that I feel very strongly about...recruiting. In order to be fair and honest I think that any military owes it to their recruits to show them what they are signing on for. Not the glorified version that the recruiters show at career day in high school, but the real deal. The mangled and dead bodies. Not just other soldiers, but women and children. And if people are not old enough to drink alcohol then they are not old enough to enlist. I dont believe anyone under the age of 21 should be allowed....and then should be given the opportunity to quit. I dont understand how any military institution can think that those who are trapped would be efficient at their job. And a job that means life and death no less.
Tracey
I agree. People change all the time. When they sign up they are in a different place then when they're 26 or 27 and being asked to deploy for the 3rd time in 8 years.
I also agree about the recruiting tactics.....they need to reform those.
In reference to the highlighted portion....can you imagine what it is like for the young men and women whose job it is to gather the leftover body parts?
My best friend's brother was KIA in Najaf in August 2004. he was green beret, army ranger, elite forces. He was shot in the head and fell in the direction of the enemy. His group risked their own lives to go back and pick him and the pieces up and bring him to safety. They knelt around him until he was gone and then took him back to be sent home.
Can you imagine what those memories will be for those men?
Can people understand that someone's ability to fight a war might change after witnesses that?
Several things...for one, remember that I am a Military Brat, a former Army-wife, and an ex-Navy guys wife. That probably has ALOT to do with my outlook on this.
As far as getting deployed again for the third time in 8 years....most military contracts are only 2-4 years, with the average being 3 years...especially in the beginning of your military career. If you didn't care for your first tour, you could choose not to renew your contract. And, it is a contract. I don't think you should be able to quit at will. The military spends alot of money training recruits to be soldiers. That is why they have contracts. They want to be assured that they are investing their money wisely. I do think 18 is old enough to join the service. I tried at 20, 22, 24, 25, 28, it was my lifelong plan to join the military. Unfortunately I am medically disqualified, and horribly sad about being denied.
I know that combat and casualties will cause mental anguish for some (or rather most, but I don't want to say *all*), and I seriously think that the military is making a big effort to improve mental health services for both soldiers and their families.
I was slightly shocked to find out that the gunman (MJR whats-his-name) was a psychologist...
Stacy~~Mom to Jade, Kitana, and James. Wife to Josh.
Co-host: Feb08 BDC -- spacecase76.bzhost@gmail.com
Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:39 pm
-
by spacecase76_BZCL - Posts 6075
me&zooey wrote:I honestly haven't ever had to think about it. But as far as fighting a war where mostly Christian casualties would occur - it's happened twice that I can think of. WWI and WWII. People of German and Japanese decent fought in WWII. They did it then....and it happens now. Doesn't make it easier or right, but this is not the first conflict where people had to fight against people "like" them. The only fight I can think of which would make me feel torn is if the US ever went to war against the UK...and I can't see that happening again.
what about the Civil War?
Y'all also fought us a few times, too, ya know! We trashed the White House! We burned it!
Then we helped fix it.
geesh, that sounds like some crap you learned from the Americans....tear it down, then help rebuild it

Stacy~~Mom to Jade, Kitana, and James. Wife to Josh.
Co-host: Feb08 BDC -- spacecase76.bzhost@gmail.com
Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:41 pm
-
by cherrytea - Posts 12891
spacecase76 wrote:
But people change. My ideals at 31 are a hell of alot different than my ideals at 17. Add that to the fact that there is no way to know what you are getting yourself in to. War as seen on TV is much different when you are looking at the shells of the people that are returning, or when you are seeing it with your own two eyes. I cannot even imagine. I thought I was anti-war before, but seeing my husbands cousin come back from Iraq in a bag that only contained maybe 20 percent of his actual body made it so much more real to me.
And this also touches on something that I feel very strongly about...recruiting. In order to be fair and honest I think that any military owes it to their recruits to show them what they are signing on for. Not the glorified version that the recruiters show at career day in high school, but the real deal. The mangled and dead bodies. Not just other soldiers, but women and children. And if people are not old enough to drink alcohol then they are not old enough to enlist. I dont believe anyone under the age of 21 should be allowed....and then should be given the opportunity to quit. I dont understand how any military institution can think that those who are trapped would be efficient at their job. And a job that means life and death no less.
Tracey
I agree. People change all the time. When they sign up they are in a different place then when they're 26 or 27 and being asked to deploy for the 3rd time in 8 years.
I also agree about the recruiting tactics.....they need to reform those.
In reference to the highlighted portion....can you imagine what it is like for the young men and women whose job it is to gather the leftover body parts?
My best friend's brother was KIA in Najaf in August 2004. he was green beret, army ranger, elite forces. He was shot in the head and fell in the direction of the enemy. His group risked their own lives to go back and pick him and the pieces up and bring him to safety. They knelt around him until he was gone and then took him back to be sent home.
Can you imagine what those memories will be for those men?
Can people understand that someone's ability to fight a war might change after witnesses that?
Several things...for one, remember that I am a Military Brat, a former Army-wife, and an ex-Navy guys wife. That probably has ALOT to do with my outlook on this.
As far as getting deployed again for the third time in 8 years....most military contracts are only 2-4 years, with the average being 3 years...especially in the beginning of your military career. If you didn't care for your first tour, you could choose not to renew your contract. And, it is a contract. I don't think you should be able to quit at will. The military spends alot of money training recruits to be soldiers. That is why they have contracts. They want to be assured that they are investing their money wisely. I do think 18 is old enough to join the service. I tried at 20, 22, 24, 25, 28, it was my lifelong plan to join the military. Unfortunately I am medically disqualified, and horribly sad about being denied.
I know that combat and casualties will cause mental anguish for some (or rather most, but I don't want to say *all*), and I seriously think that the military is making a big effort to improve mental health services for both soldiers and their families.
I was slightly shocked to find out that the gunman (MJR whats-his-name) was a psychologist...
my contract was for 6 yrs..and i joined at 17, with parental permission...

Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:47 pm









