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niceyrae




by niceyrae
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I lost 2 children and a husband almost 15 years ago. I remarried and have been trying to get pregnant for the last 14 years.It has really been hard for me.
BZCA_Mandy




by BZCA_Mandy
Posts 14061
HI hun.  I'm so sorry for your losses.  I can't begin to imagine the pain. 
 
My loss was somewhat to be expected.  I think as we grow older, we know that we will one day loose our parents.  My mom was sick the majority of my life.  I thought about what her death would be like from the time I was old enough to think.  It didn't make loosing her any easier.  The one thing that I've always been confident of though, is that she is not in any pain now. 
 
I can't begin to imagine loosing one child, much less 2.  And to loose your husband as well.  I'm sure that it's been a long journey. 
 
I know you mentioned that you have been trying to have a baby.  Have you and your husband thought about adopting?