It's been almost 4 years since my m/c. I lost my baby at 6 1/2 weeks. We didn't know the gender (obviously) but I had a dream that it was a boy. We named him Brady. I had never had any trouble getting pregnant with my first ( who was conceived and born in 2006), but I had trouble afterward. 3 months after my m/c (we started TTC as soon as possible after we lost Brady) I stopped ovulating. I was put on Metformin for PCOS. It didn't help. I was then put on 2.5 mg Femara with the Metformin. It didn't help, so my doc upped my dose to 5 mg. That did the trick. Not only did I ovulate, but I got pregnant that cycle. My younger daughter is now 2 1/2. We are TTC our 3rd and final little miracle...and I'm having trouble again. I'm on my second cycle of Femara.
Anyway. My only advice is take your time. Don't rush things. If you're ready, you're ready, but you and your hubby/fiance/boyfriend are the only ones who should make that decision. My hubby's family was VERY unsupportive. I'm dreading them finding out we're TTC again. Communication with your partner is crucial right now. Hubby bottled up his feelings cause he thought he needed to to be strong for me. I wanted him to show emotion and he didn't. That caused some issues in our marriage that we just recently started working on. They are harder to work through now than they would have been 4 years ago when it happened. I also had some spiritual work to do. When I m/c'ed I was SOOOO angry at God. That too, took a lot out of me. I finally found that taking it easy on myself and finding something to occupy my mind helped a lot!
I noticed emlong recommended a book. I didn't read that one, but Waiting with Gabriel is also a PHENOMENAL read. I highly recommend it...but it's a REAL tearjerker!
Wishing you the best. I hope we ALL get to join the November DDC!