Hi All! If you are TTC and will test in the month of October this is your post! The previous groups were such a success that we (the girls and I) decided to comtinue the experience! This is a group where you can discuss your hopes and fears, and frustration if we get BFN or AF. We can also give each other advice on BBT and CM charting. And most importantly: seeing that we are not alone with the BFN frustration!!! I hope this group will have many new members because we like to welcome new faces! So feel free to join us! 

***important note: I'm sorry the post came out so crooked! I can't edit all the HTML code. I don't know what happened! I did it as I always do when I begin a group... I hope this is still readable!!!***
 
To join you need to tell us about yourself:
 
Your nick:
Where you're from:
Your age and partner's age:
You're trying for baby #
This is cycle #
Your possible AF arrival date: 
And a bit of your TTC/couple story.
  
 
So you can know us, here is a short description of each of our girls:
OUR CHEERLEADERS AND THEIR EDD
Feb 10, 2010: Hopeful 28
Feb 28, 2010: Mollyh
Apr 24, 2010: Countrychick919
May 4, 2010: Luvbeingamommy
May 8, 2010: Hardhatgirl
May29, 2010: Babydreams
Your Nick- Babydreams
 Where you're from: GA
Your age and partner's age:  24/28
You're trying for baby <span style="font-weight: bold;"># 1</span>
This is cycle: 4
EDD:  5/29/2010
And a bit of your ttc/couple story: <span style="font-weight: bold;">DH And I have been together for 6 yrs, married for close to 3 yrs. I had my Mirena taken out in May of this year. I got pregnant in August, but had an early m/c. I immediately got pregnant again and we're expecting our first baby in May of 2010. I have put all of my faith in God and DH and I couldn't be more excited!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Countrychick919
Where you're from: Edmonton, AB
Your age and partner's age: 21 and 25
You're having baby # 1
# cycles trying: 3
Your EDD:April 24,2010
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: HardHatGirl / Kristin
Where you're from: Texas
Your age and partner's age:  35 / 34
You're trying for baby #  2
This is cycle: 2
EDD:  May 8
And a bit of your ttc/couple story: DH and I have been together 15 years, married almost 11.  Spent 7 years waiting for DH to be ready for kids, then another 2.5 years and 3 m/c trying (due to low progesterone) before we had our DD Beckett Elizabeth April 2, 2009.  Due to my age and fertility issues, our RE suggested we try for another baby ASAP so we did and found success in our 2nd month.  Our little ones will be 13 months apart!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Name: Hopeful28/Crystal
Age: 26 (me) 25 DH
Baby # 1
EDD: Feb 10th
TTC/Couple: after metformin, clomid, rounds of testing, we O'd and got our BFP! We are very excited and nervous with the process but could not be happier! this is the furthest that we have made it and each day seems like a milestone to us! DH and will have our 3rd wedding anniv coming up on Sept 28th, met at college, and he is my best friend
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: LuvBeingAMommy23
Where you're from: Florida
Your age and partner's age: 26/27
You're trying for baby # 3
This is cycle: 4
EDD: May 4
And a bit of your ttc/couple story: DH And I have been together for 9 years Married for 4 1/2.. We both knew we wanted children right away.. We had our 1st DS on Dec.12th 2005 & Then we welcomed DD into the world on Nov. 7th 2007.. We are thrilled to have recently found out were expecting #3..
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Nick: Mollyh
From: Los Angeles, CA
Ages: I'm 31/DH is 36
Baby #: 1
# Cycles: 1
EDD: February 28, 2010
Couple History:  DH and I met on match dot com.  Neither of us thought before our first date that we would be doing anything other than meeting for coffee, but coffee turned into dinner, which turned into more coffee, which turned into a walk, which turned into sitting in front of the same coffee shop, even though they were closed!  A year and a half later he proposed and we were married almost exactly a year later (a year and 2 weeks).  On our 1st anniversary, I found out I'm pregnant! 
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VIP TESTERS (TTC for 9 months or more)
Your nick: AngelaH
Where you're from: Arizona
Your age and partner's age: 28/31
You're trying for baby # 3
This is cycle # 14
Your possible AF arrival date: Oct. 7th
a bit of your TTC/couple story:3rd round of Clomid this month, we are going to try until December if not preg by then we are going to stop, month after month gets so frustrating... I have two girl 3 and 11/2 so I am blessed already, but I don't feel our family is complete we are hoping for 1 more child... PLEASE, let it happen!!! 
 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Ellie Sweetie
Where you're from: Quebec, Canada
Your age and partner's age: 31 me, 30 him
You're trying for baby # 1 (take 2)
This is cycle: #4 (really #9 as my dr agreed to count pre-medication months as trying months.)
Your possible AF arrival date: October 11th
And a bit of your TTC/couple story: Dh and I met in high school, but we started dating only 5 years later. We got married last year, and began TTC in May 2008. In October 2008, I had to stop TTC to take medication for Acne that would have given me a deformed baby. March 2009: I swallowed my last pill of the meds. April 2009: I swallowed last bcp. My husband just had his permanence at work, I am on the priority list and thus almost assured of having a job every school year, there never was a better time! Let's just hope this fits with God's Plan.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: hopefully one day soon
Where you're from: Live in Dallas Area.. but claim Nebraska
Your age and partner's age: 33/33
You're trying for baby # 1  after 1 m/c
This is cycle # 5
Your possible AF arrival date: Oct 5th
a bit of your TTC/couple story: My husband and I have been married for just over three years now.  Originally I wanted to wait two years before trying.  I was about to change my mind when my husband decided to take a new job in a new town, and I would be loosing my local sick days from my old school district.  I decided to wait the two years so I could get settled into my new world.  We begain trying in June of 2008.  We didn't have any luck until Februrary of 2009.  My husband and I were so excited.   We told everyone and started planning for our little peanut.  Unforunately at the end of April I had a m/c and lost our peanut.  We never really stopped trying but we activitely started in june again.  I would really love to have a BFP before my original due date comes at the beginning of Nov.  I have this month and next to get that BPF.  Here's to trying!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: MidiansHotMama
Where you're from: Albuquerque, NM
Your age and partner's age: 31/me 32/DH
You're trying for baby # 2
This is cycle # 10
Your possible AF arrival date: October 18th
a bit of your TTC/couple story: DH and I had a very whirwind romance. The 1st time we were "together" I got pg with my DD. I got my Paraguard IUD in Sept 05 and had it removed Jan 09. We have been trying with no success going on out 10th month. I really thought it would happen quickly like w/ DD. Well obviously we see how well it did......... 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: mommyqb
Where you're from: Texas, living in Arizona
Your age and partner's age: 37/31
You're trying for baby # 2
This is cycle # 18 
Your possible AF arrival date: af due oct 1 short month this month I o'd a week early
And a bit of your TTC/couple story.  we met , moved in, got pregnant.  Ds just turned 3 was really hoping to have #2 before that guess will set our sights to this month
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Nickname:vpg78
From:Louisiana
Ages: Me 31/Dh 34
Trying for Baby # 3
This is cycle # 16
Possible AF arrival date: October 9
Our story: We got married Aug 2000 and had our first son in Jul 04 we lucked out and got pregnant again ten months later and welcomed our second son in Jan 06.Got on the shot to give my body a little rest (I had two c-sections).I decided to stop getting it in Dec.07 hoping in a years time we could conceive again but to no avail.Now there are new babies everywhere and I'm starting to loose my mind!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">TESTERS:
Your nick: ATP
Where you're from: Edmonton Alberta via Jamaica
Your age and partner's age: me 32 dh 29
You're trying for baby # 2
This is cycle # 3 since MC
Your possible AF arrival date: Unknown
And a bit of your TTC/couple story. MC May 2009, appears that I ovulated for the first time since then on August 19. Really hoping to give DS a sibling really soon.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Aussie Hopeful
Where you're from: Brisbane, Queensland, Australia
Your age and partner's age: 24 &24
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle # will be 5months...
Your possible AF arrival date: seeing Dr on Sept 28th for IVF planning/timeschedule, starting IVF on next cycle, hopefully due Sept 30.  DH and i have been together for 2years, married for 5months this month (October). Just asking for prayers so when we do test in possibly November we will be greeted with a positive IVF outcome and a BFP!!!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Nickname: Bonbons mommy
Where you're from: South Ms
Your Age & DH's age: 30/38
This is Cycle: #2
Trying for baby number: #2
Your possible af arrival date: October 11
A bit of you ttc/couple story:
DH & I have been together for almost nine years. We started ttc right away and after 2 1/2 yrs conceived our ds. He will be 6 in January & begs us for a bro or sister. DH has been ready for #2 since ds was born & I finally decided it's time. I'm leaving it in God's hand & know it will happen in his time.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your Nick: Britney
Where you're from: Shelby, Ohio
Your age and partner's age: 18/18
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle # 3
Your possible AF arrival date:  October 25
And a bit of your TTC/couple story: We got married July 5, 2009 and have been ttc ever since. No luck yet. AF always shows, but makes it unbearable and confusing because she keeps coming late. I was on BC for about a year and a half. I'm hoping it completely fades away this month. I'm still reaping the effects of it. Ugh!! 
 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Cayla_TTC_n_June
Where you're from: Oklahoma
Your age and partner's age:  I'm 27, DH is 32
You're trying for baby #  1
This is cycle # 5
Your possible testing date  October 11th
And a bit of your TTC/couple story. I got off bc pill in May and thought it would happen immediately!!! LOL!!! Yeah right. After several tests and ultrasounds and money I started taking Clomid this cycle. Hopefully it works! Also, started using the OvWatch. Got my DH a sperm analysis test and he is all good! It’s time to get pg!  I am so ready for this to be month!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Nick: Chanayrane
Living in: Virginia
Age of me and dh: 27/32
going for baby # 3
cycle # 3
Possible test date: Unknown
TTC: I will keep it short..we have to girls 8 & 4 and have been together for 8 years  we had a m/c in 2007 a very early one..Went on b/c for 6 months then went off. so this Aug makes it officially 1 year being off  b/c. We have not used anything since then and we decided that we wanted to try for a 2010 baby..so here we are 
 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Hoppy
Where you're from: Tennessee
Your age and partner's age: 25/26
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle # 8
Your possible AF arrival date: Who knows....
a bit of your TTC/couple story:  DH and I are high school sweethearts.  We've been married for 2 years and are looking to have our first baby.  We are simply praying for God's will to be done in our lives. 
 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: HorsieAmanda
Where you're from: near Akron, Ohio
Your age and partner's age: DH and I are 26
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle # 3
Your possible AF arrival date: maybe around October 24? (after an odd cycle last month I am really not sure)
And a bit of your TTC/couple story: DH (Mike) and I went to middle and high school together but never really hung out. We reconnected through myspace and quickly started dating. We got married in June '08 and are ready to start TTC. I'm a teacher (8th grade intervention) and hoping for a summer baby! 
 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Littlemissmama
Where you're from: Northern California
Your age and partner's age: 27 and 27
You're trying for baby # 2
This is cycle # 2
Your possible AF arrival date: October 19th.
a bit of your TTC/couple story: My DH and I were high school sweethearts, and have been married for three years (four in December).  We conceived our ds during the first cycle (actually, the first time we ever had unprotected sex)!  lol  Because of that, we figured we could just decide when we wanted a second child, and start that month. We started last month, bot of us feeling pretty certain that it would happen.   I am a teacher, and was hoping to have the summer with my new LO, but God has a different plan.  We are putting this in his hands, and hoping for a BFP soon.    My ds is 19 months old, and is truly the light of my life.  I can't even imagine my life without him.  I look forward to spending October with you girls again, and hope we have lots of BFP's coming our way. 
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: RyJo (Brooke)
Where you're from: Texas
Your age and partner's age: Me 33/ DH 33
You're trying for STICKY baby #2
This is cycle #7
Possible AF arrival date: October 24 (maybe)
TTC
story: DH and I got married in 2005, and had a miscarriage at 12 weeks that same year. We conceived DD (the LOVE of my life) in Dec 2005, and she was born 9/11/06. We conceived 2nd DD  in Nov 2008, but it ended in a heartbreaking loss at 22 weeks. I then conceived again in July of 2009, but had another miscarriage at 5 1/2 weeks. I have since been diagnosed with a blood clotting disorder and a short luteal phase, and will be taking baby aspirin forever, and Lovanox injections and progesterone the next time I become pregnant. We're supposed to wait 2 cycles (November) before trying again, but we're just going to let God plan our future. If he wills it to be then we might have only waited one cycle.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Nickname: SAS0328
From:  Outside of Philadelphia, PA
Ages: Me 29, DH 26
Trying for baby #1
Cycle #2
Possible test date:  this is sticky...I may test 9/30, FF has me testing at 10/6...I guess it depends on how patient I am   hahahaha.  I will upda te this weekend or next week on my decision
bit of our TTC story:  I can't wait to have children and DH is so good with them.  We were going to start trying in Oct, b/c my doc said I should get off BC 3 months before we start trying, but we started trying right away (So impatiant I am  )  I told DH that it can be hard getting preggo right off the pill, so we mine as well start trying... so here we are 2 months later and possibly either prego or not!  hahaha, we will see!  I keep envisioning the bedroom all done up.  We were showing family our new house and DH said this will be where the baby will be and my cousin was like "you already know" and we are like yep!  DH is so adorable....
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: summer_flower
Where you're from: Perth, Australia
Your age and partner's age: 24 and 24
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle: 5
Possible AF arrival date: October 11th.
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a bit of your ttc/couple story: Well DH and I got married on 12th September!!!! We have finally returned from out honeymoon to the land of the living and are both back at work. We are getting back on the TTC train for October, hoping for a wonderful Christmas present for all our parents.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: sun7kissed21
Where you're from: ohio
Your age and partner's age: 23/23
You're trying for baby # 2, #1 (Avery ) is 19 months as of yesterday.
This is cycle #  october will be our first cyle trying
Your possible AF arrival date:  oct 6th
And a bit of your TTC/couple story.  we're getting married oct 3rd and want to start ttc after that. DH isn't 100% sure if he wants to start in oct or nov. but hopefully it will be oct. I feel guilty about wanting to ttc b/c he's got the mind set that nows not the time to ttc, but i try to tell him it could take months before we get a BFP and then another 9 months after that before the baby is born. So it could be another year or so before a baby is actually here. I know i shouldn't feel so guilty but Its hard when he's not as excited as I am. But i know he wants more kids and he'll be excited when they are physically here for him to hold.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: sunshineday (Jenn)
Where you're from: Canfield, Ohio (suburb of Youngstown)
Your age and partner's age: Me 29/ DH 29
You're trying for baby #2
This is cycle #3
Possible AF arrival date: October 27
TTC story: DH and I got married August 19, 2009 after dating for 2 yrs. We were blessed with the pregnancy of our DS in October of that year. DS (Dominic) is now 2 years old and we won't to have another one soon! I was on B/C and even though my cycle was not the normal 28 days that it normally is I do feel I O'd this last month so we will really try to get this done in October!
Test Date: October 27 (I am not testing early at all this month - It was too stressful_
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Tina
Where you're from: Winnipeg,MB Canada
Your age and partner's age: 24 DH 24
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle # 7
Your possible AF arrival date: Oct ? Still doesn't have af for cycle 6
And a bit of your TTC/couple story:  Married for over a year, been together for 5 and half years. Met in College.  We have 2 cats, male is Domino and female is Bella, both just over a year old. They are my babies!  After our Honeymoon in Cuba (jan09), I went off my med's for 2 months before we started to try. Aug was a head month for DH and I, not a lot of bd'ing. Cycle #6 is looking like my cycle is going back to normal (28days) which will be good! No more 35days cycle!
I have VIP for FF right now so I'm hoping that will help for the next few months. Good Luck to everyone!!! Baby dust!!!!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick:  TTC#1afterBC
Where you're from: KY
Your age and partner's age: 22 and 29
You're trying for baby # 1
This is cycle # 4
Your possible AF arrival date: October 17th
a bit of your TTC/couple story:-DH and I have been married for almost 2 years (together for over 3). We are ready to have our first child!!! We have been trying for a few months and after AF being 16 days late this month, I started taking Fertilaid to regulate my cycles. Hoping it helps us get pregnant!!!!
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: txmommytotwins
Where you're from: Texas
Your age and partner's age: 27/29
You're trying for baby #3,
This is cycle #  4
Your possible AF arrival date:  October 23rd
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a bit of your TTC/couple story.  My husband and I have known each other since we were 8. He's my best friend.  We were best friends all our lives but we always dated other people. About a year after my divorce we started dating and we got married may 6th 2006.  My husband has no natural children, and I have been wanting another child for about a year.  I worked on my health and  we both worked on our finances and we officially started trying in June when I had my IUD removed after 7 years.  TTC is much more emotional than I thought and I'm glad to be here where there is all this support. I leraned a lot during cycle three, I'm optimistic this will be my cycle.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick:  Walshy28
Where you're from:   Fremont, CA
Your age and partner's age:   28, Husband 32
You're trying for baby #   2
This is cycle #4 (soon to be #5)
Your possible testing date/AF due:   I'm thinking September 26th
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a bit of your TTC/couple story.    DH and I met through our roommates
who were dating.  He is originally from Ireland (accent and all), so it
was only fitting that we met on St. Patrick's Day.  We married August
14, 2005 and conceived our now 3yr old daughter 6 weeks after we got
married.  This June I finished my last BC pack and had a normal AF and
started trying the 26th, 28th, 30th, and 2nd.  I thought that was
pretty efficient.  Unfortunately, AF reared her ugly face.  The last 2
months i have only had 25 day cycles.  I really hope this is it.  I'm also a
teacher (Kindergarten), so I'm trying to time it with the
school year.
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">Your nick: Zachary, Theresa, and Brody (I need to change it, but cant find out where to do it at on BZ)
Where you're from: Drought stricken, fire blazing California
Your age and partner's age: Im 24, and DH just turned 25.
You're trying for baby # 2
This is cycle # 1
Your possible AF arrival date: I have no idea when AF is suppose to start. I am just off of Mirena.
A bit of your TTC/couple story: I am off of Mirena as of 9/17, but have been put on Yaz to help with ovarian cysts.  Dr has told us to use a condom for the first three weeks.  Dh doesn't want to wear condoms, and I dont want him to either.  So right now we are playing what I call russian rullette (baby style).  If I get pg it would be great, if not I will be heartbroken, and then we will havee to wait until I have my job as a surgical tech for a little while.  Wish me luck that the Yaz doesn't want to work! lol
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<span style="font-weight: bold;">GOOD LUCK AND BABY DUST TO ALL!!!</span>