All right, here's another one of my random thoughts.
Take your name, change it to a masculine version of your name, and then think about whether you (as a female) would like to have this name or not (or at least be able to pull it off), and why.
I was just thinking about my guy friend with the same name as my legal name (with an extra N, which doesn't change the sound, but I feel like I pronounce his name slightly different from my own). I like his version better than mine, so I was just thinking about whether or not a different spelling would make me like my legal name more.
It doesn't have to be the most masculine version, just a masculine version.
Like if your name is Tonya, you don't have to pick Anthony, but you could go with Antoine, or something.
So, I'll go with Lucian.
I think I could pull it off, but I'd still be going by Lucy.
I don't think I'd *like* to have it, as in "prefer" to have it over a girl name, but I don't think it'd be the end of the world for me to deal with being a Lucian. It's really masculine, and I don't think of it as a girl name, but I'd be able to handle it, I think. Whether or not other people would look at me like I had two heads over my name is a different story.
Now, how about you?
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