dlb13 wrote:i REALLY and truly do not mean to sound heartless or insensitive, but you have FOUR children and are trying to have more??? count those four little blessings and be done with it!!! of course it hurts to lose a child, but think of the women like me who are 29 yrs old and lost one and can not have ANY at all. if i had ONE child id be the happiest woman on earth, much less FOUR. i am very sorry for your loss, god knows i have felt that heartache, but maybe this is gods way of telling u to be grateful, and happy with what u already have? im sorry if this sounds cruel, i really dont mean for it to
And who are you to dictate how many children a person should have? Yes it hurts to lose a child, but it does not hurt any less if you already have children or you do not. With one post to your name I cannot think that you know her story, her struggles, her anything. I am sorry if you can truly not have children, but that does not give you the right to dictate anyone elses reproductive life. "Sorry if this sounds cruel". Nope, doesn't sound, it is cruel and ignorant.
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