Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:17 pm
Well our plans have changed for the 5,000,000th time. After looking at our finances we won't be able to do an IUI or adoption this year unless we borrowed money from family, which even though they would be willing and able we don't feel right asking. So I'm backing off the TTC craziness and trying something totally new to me...its called relaxing! I know, many of us don't know what that's like after trying for years and years but it's about time I take my own advise and dont stress.
No more clomid, b-6, baby aspirin, pre-seed, softcups, OPKs, temps, hip propping, herb remedies, Indian chants, weird yoga positions, or whatever else I've been told to do in the past. And even though the psychic said my meds and supplements were working and I'd have my BFP by August, the cards should have told her I wouldn't do those things anyway. lol =] stubborn me!
I will still be here daily and I know I need to be more active in all of your journeys and I apologize for not posting comments more often! I will do better ladies, I promise!
For all our newbies, get the book 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility', this should be every TTCers bible. Invest in a good BBT and be consistent with temping at the same time in the a.m. And most of all..... TTC SHOULD BE FUN! DON'T MAKE DTD A CHORE! Keep it kinky, it won't affect your unconcieved child! =]
Anyways, if we aren't pg by January we will use our tax return for an IUI or adoption. If its feasible at that time we need to sell our home and move within the next year too so we will see where the next 6 months take us.
Hope you all have a great weekend!