New Plan! Relax!

Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:17 pm

Well our plans have changed for the 5,000,000th time. After looking at our finances we won't be able to do an IUI or adoption this year unless we borrowed money from family, which even though they would be willing and able we don't feel right asking. So I'm backing off the TTC craziness and trying something totally new to me...its called relaxing! I know, many of us don't know what that's like after trying for years and years but it's about time I take my own advise and dont stress.
No more clomid, b-6, baby aspirin, pre-seed, softcups, OPKs, temps, hip propping, herb remedies, Indian chants, weird yoga positions, or whatever else I've been told to do in the past. And even though the psychic said my meds and supplements were working and I'd have my BFP by August, the cards should have told her I wouldn't do those things anyway. lol =] stubborn me!
I will still be here daily and I know I need to be more active in all of your journeys and I apologize for not posting comments more often! I will do better ladies, I promise!
For all our newbies, get the book 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility', this should be every TTCers bible. Invest in a good BBT and be consistent with temping at the same time in the a.m. And most of all..... TTC SHOULD BE FUN! DON'T MAKE DTD A CHORE! Keep it kinky, it won't affect your unconcieved child! =]
Anyways, if we aren't pg by January we will use our tax return for an IUI or adoption. If its feasible at that time we need to sell our home and move within the next year too so we will see where the next 6 months take us.
Hope you all have a great weekend!

Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:24 pm

*lurking* hey girl i was hoping i would find good news about a bfp but they usually say when you relax is when it happens, thats how i got this bfp. when i m/c in feb i had dh take MACA pills and nothing, then in march i took them and nothing and in april i said forget it i wasnt gonna try that month and bfp. im still keeping my fx for you. keep me updated

Fri Jul 27, 2012 9:31 pm

sounds great!! It is hard to relax over something you want so badly, I understand Just letting you know you're always in my prayers and my heart!!

1 Angel 10/1/12

Fri Jul 27, 2012 10:25 pm

Best of luck to you on your new plan! FX a relaxed approach is just what you need

Praying for a sticky bean!

Fri Jul 27, 2012 10:58 pm

Wishing you the best of luck in your relaxing approach the next few months! Sorry you guys have reached this stage, though. You never know, maybe the medication worked so well that you will get a natural BFP in Aug. by taking the time you need! Best of luck girly!!!!

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ae834

5 Angels

Sat Jul 28, 2012 11:58 am

I like the new plan. I think it's a good idea, I'm also sorry you don't already have a BFP. I think it did me some good switching to the cheerleader mode for a few months and taking a few months off from the obsessing. I hope it helps you get your BFP in the next few cycles and we can both get our late Spring/ early Summer 2013 HEALTHY and HAPPY babies!!

Always thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. This WILL happen!!

Sat Jul 28, 2012 5:36 pm

Sounds like a good plan. And I know many people who got pregnant when they weren't trying (just "relaxing"), so I'd say it can still happen. Either way, enjoy your relaxation and GL in the future!

2 Angel Babies (3/2012 & 8/2012)