I'm a 32 y/o, trying to conceive, I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2010, I was in denial that I had PCOS b/c I showed no symptoms but I was almost 200lbs and I'm only 5'3. I was put on metformin and lost about 20, now I'm down to about 165 (lost 10lbs on my own this year with exercising). I am very irregular, without the help of provera, I would never be able to get my period on my own.
I am really frusterated and I feel so lost with everything.
Last year I was put on clomid for 6 months but failed throughout b/c of my hectic schedule, working, taking 3 classes, and trying to get the hubby to bd with me was hectic too. So finally in April of this year, I gave up, I just focused on losing weight the right way, hitting the gym, being active, and eating healthier.
Right now, I'm taking two classes, no longer working (thank goodness, b/c my job was so stressful!).
I really hate to ask and feel embarrassed to ask for help but I feel as though I'm so new to everything and I need my hand held through this process. God has blessed me with a wonderful friend who went through this that was there at the ease of the text but, I must learn this on my own, I know she's a busy mom too! And she's been a true blessing! She reached out to me and helped me so much!
Well, I was given provera to start a period a few weeks ago, had my period on Nov 2, and took clomid days 5-10, and I took an OPK on the 12th and I saw a smiley face! I was excited...so we started bd the 13th and 15th... and I'm planning on it tomm and Monday but, my chart says otherwise. I'm just really confused... I need babyhelp 101 majorly!
A few other notes:
I have gotten an HSG done twice, first time she couldn't tell, second time, she said my ovaries were wonderful.
Many ultra sounds and found nothing!
Husband did sperm analysis, everything came back fine.
What to expect next? Since the smily face, 11/12, my temps were: 96.56, 97.1, 96.7, 96.5... these temps were not taken at the same time b/c I pee a lot, so as soon as I have the urge to pee I take my temp so the times are different but, usually between 6a.m.-8.m.
My temp has been going up and down, and I got sick this week and went to the doc, and my temp went up from 97.1 in the a.m. to 98.2, is this a sign?
Should I keep bd? Did I miss the fertile time?
Symptoms: breast tenderness? Is this a good sign?
Thanks in advance, and I'm sorry if I sound silly in not knowing these things, just a lot of things on my mind... I appreciate any feedback. Thanks!
Here's a photo of my chart: