Mon Aug 12, 2013 2:26 am
Hi my name is Carley,
My best friend lost her baby yesterday at 23 (almost 24) weeks along. I've had 4 M/C but always very early on in my pregnancies, so in a way I know what she is going through, but at the same time I know nothing of what she's going through.
I went to the hospital yesterday to see her and she let me hold her son, he was so tiny and beautiful.
I want to be able to be there for her, but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable.
What did some of you ladies find the most helpful after your losses?
I plan on making her a meal or two that she can just heat up in the oven, but I don't know what else to do, like I said I want to help but I don't want to be in her face about it because I know she needs time.
DD: Brooklyn Feb. 21, 2006
DS: Lincoln July 30, 2009
Baby Boy Due May 20, 2013