SCH (Subchorionic Hematoma) & depression

Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:49 pm

Hi all,
I am 11 weeks pregnant and was diagnosed with SCH (Subchorionic Hematoma) when I was 8 weeks. I found out I was pregnant January 1 and by January 6, I was placed on bedrest at home. One week later I was admitted into the hospital for 1 week and placed on modified bedrest for 1 week after that. Here´s where I´m having a problem and feeling depressed. I feel useless, I can´t do anything at home. I can´t get arroused so no sex. I feel fat and unatrractive. My husnabd and I had a very active lifestyle (in every sense of the word) prior to being placed on bedrest and now I feel totally useless. Just yesterday I realized that my husband was masturbating. Not that I mind...hey, better that than going out to look for it, right? What bothers me is that he is not discreet about it. It´s so obvious when he does. I just wish he wouldn´t make it so obvious. When I asked him he didn´t want to talk and said ¨that was personal¨ So that on top of I can´t please him that way I use to and feeling useless because I can´t be nearly as active as I was has me feeling depressed. I wonder if this is his way of coping with this. I know it probably isn´t easy for him either.

Is anyone else going through this or something similar? I don´t know what to do.

Sat Feb 02, 2013 6:36 pm

Hi all,
I am 11 weeks pregnant and was diagnosed with SCH (Subchorionic Hematoma) when I was 8 weeks. I found out I was pregnant January 1 and by January 6, I was placed on bedrest at home. One week later I was admitted into the hospital for 1 week and placed on modified bedrest for 1 week after that. Here´s where I´m having a problem and feeling depressed. I feel useless, I can´t do anything at home. I can´t get arroused so no sex. I feel fat and unatrractive. My husnabd and I had a very active lifestyle (in every sense of the word) prior to being placed on bedrest and now I feel totally useless. Just yesterday I realized that my husband was masturbating. Not that I mind...hey, better that than going out to look for it, right? What bothers me is that he is not discreet about it. It´s so obvious when he does. I just wish he wouldn´t make it so obvious. When I asked him he didn´t want to talk and said ¨that was personal¨ So that on top of I can´t please him that way I use to and feeling useless because I can´t be nearly as active as I was has me feeling depressed. I wonder if this is his way of coping with this. I know it probably isn´t easy for him either.

Is anyone else going through this or something similar? I don´t know what to do.

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Sat Feb 02, 2013 8:12 pm

Thank you Pia.

Mon Feb 04, 2013 11:08 am

Thank you Pia.

You are most welcome.

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